I know that this hobby is seen as flippant, indulgent, and even vain. I have struggled with this a little bit as of late, because during this challenge I am doing new nails every day, and I like to wear them to work. But I did not realize how many judgments I would get because of it. What's with the comments I wonder?
I have a daughter who is 4 and I usually do my nails after I tuck her in at night. Does this make me lazy or inattentive to her? Do people think that I am a bad mother because they assume that I am ignoring her whilst I polish my nails? Or perhaps they believe I should be the sacrificial mother, who does not take care of herself because she gives everything to her children. Should I neglect to get my hair cut, or put on makeup, or any of the other things I do to take care of myself because I will draw attention to myself and thereby, others will make a judgment on my parenting?
I am the first to admit, I am no happy housewife. I work full time in a very physical job and I come home to a house that is not in the least bit clean, but is certainly not dangerous or disgusting (pleasantly cluttered, as I call it). I do not like cleaning or cooking so once I get home, I am all about my daughter until she goes to bed, then I fold clothes, or wash the dishes, or do my nails (more of the last one lately)
I don't know why this has me so upset. I guess I just realized this little hobby of mine is not seen as such a positive thing.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Breathe!
Now, here are my fabulous, amazing, semi-chipped nails that are supposed to look like snake scales. I used Sephora Completely Fern-ished (3 coats, this stuff was runny!) and Sally Hansen Golden-I for the stencil. The plate is BM 208. For extra weirdness, I painted some eyes on my accent nail with Finger Paints Art Nouv-Yellow and Essie Licorice
Before nail art